"What is it? My dear?"
"Ah, how can we bear it?"
"Bear what?"
"This. For so short a time. How can we sleep this time away?"
"We can be quiet together, and pretend – since it is only the beginning - that we have all the time in the world."
"And every day we shall have less. And then none."
"Would you rather, therefore, have had nothing at all?"
"No. This is where I have always been coming to. Since my time began. And when I go away from here, this will be the mid-point, to which everything ran, before, and from which everything will run. But now, my love, we are here, we are now, and those other times are running elsewhere."
– A.S. Byatt, Possession




Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Looking for Paradise

Geography of Bliss
     In Eric Weiner’s book Geography of Bliss, the author travels to various countries in pursuit of finding a paradise, a place to be happy. He writes about his adventures in a humorous way, making his travels truly engaging. He thinks that the recipe for paradise is that the place must be difficult to reach and there must be a distinction between paradise and ordinary life. I can’t help but agree with him, as most humans are happy when having more than their neighbors. One of those countries visited was Bhutan, where instead of giving the Gross Domestic Product (GDP) importance, they focus more on the Gross National Happiness (a term coined by Bhutan’s king).

     Bhutan, full of beautiful mountain views, people live a simple life. There is only one main road, and only recently do they have television. They are a poor country, where you may run into some dead people and face your own mortality. This makes the author depressed, but the natives agree that facing their mortality makes them happier as they’re not as afraid of death.  They have a firm believe in religion and reincarnation, on luck and deities in lakes. It is a strange place, but one where some people are able to find happiness by appreciating what they have.

Paro Valley inBhutan / Image Courtesy of BlackPeakTravel.com
Bhutan 
     At the end of the trip, he found he had become attached to that little known country, as well as his sometimes annoying but well-meaning guide. He concludes by saying that he would not have done anything differently in hbis life and every step in his life (negative or positive) has been just right. He knows he is okay, and while okay is not happiness, it is a start he is grateful for. Life is a journey of up’s and down’s, but if I manage to be okay for most of it, then I’ll be more than happy with my life.

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